Annette,

I hope you do not wait on getting this taken care of we tend to ignore our own needs. Jay is right this at least is a good time of year to get it done. I have some physical challenges and have learned to ask for help. People are very generous... especially ones in the county clerk offices. It is amazing how well you can adapt when you loose the use of part of your body or one of your senses. Good luck and try not to be scared, it will work out for you. I don't know what I can do from CA but if you need anything please let me know.

Judy